How, Then, Do We Speak the Truth?

“But speaking the truth in love, [we] may grow up into Him in all things.” (Ephesians 4:15, KJV)

“Be ready to speak up and tell anyone who asks why you’re living the way you are, and always with the utmost courtesy. Keep a clear conscience before God so that when people throw mud at you, none of it will stick.” (1 Peter 3:15, The Message)

“Poor communication, or the complete lack of it, is undoubtedly the cause of most misunderstandings and unhappiness. Speaking the truth can be difficult. Expressing ourselves honestly and openly is a huge challenge that we all must work at throughout our lives. Seasoned with love, however, honest communication can liberate, heal, and nurture our relationships. The Bible has a lot to say about communication. Speak the truth in love—be ready always to give an answer for the hope that is in you. A kind word, a gentle tongue, and a disciplined mouth are incredible forces for good. James tells us: ‘We all stumble in many ways. If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to keep his whole body in check’ (James 3:2, NIV). Let the love of God not only constrain your words, but also compel you to speak the truth in every situation.”

O Lord my God, help me speak the truth in love, when—
…reasoning with my spouse.
…confronting a co-worker.
…disciplining my children.
…speaking up in a church group.
…standing for what is right in my community.
…I am tempted to deceive myself about something. Amen.

Adapted, thanks to Liz Connally, from Breath Prayers: Simple Whispers to Keep You in God’s Presence (Honor Books).